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You don’t need to have too many conversations to understand that the feelings on fighting in lacrosse, or in any sport for that matter, are mixed. Fighting is truly a finer point of the sport that is misunderstood by many, applauded by the faithful, and incredibly respected by the few who willingly participate. I’m pretty sure that everyone who knows me also knows where I stand on the issue. So, for all of you out there who can’t seem to fathom how two athletes can step back, drop their gloves, go toe to toe, and buy each other a beer after the game, here is your explanation.

Growing up in Canada and by playing hockey and box lacrosse, the intricacies of fighting were learned through experiencing the process on TV, being a spectator in amateur and professional arenas, and by playing the sport. Respect, honor, camaraderie, and toughness are all learned through competition. It just so happens that between combatants these attributes are all learned on a different level, and fighting, although entertaining, ultimately serves alternate purposes.

Just the thought of having to “answer the bell” for your actions on the floor is enough to deter the dirtiest of players from acting inappropriately in any competitive setting. Fighting internally polices the game. If you do something stupid toward my teammates, you can count on turning around and seeing me at some point that night or throughout the season.

On the other hand, fighting has the ability to ignite a crowd, your team, and send a message that can be felt in an arena. The Philadelphia crowd responds unbelievably to the scraps, and truly becomes the sixth man on the floor after watching a good tilt.

I’m rarely mad when I drop the gloves. It’s a job, and it serves a purpose. In fact it’s probably the calmest that I am in sports and in life. Everything slows down, I’m able to react, and I can see things happening before they happen. The fight might take place in a retaliatory aspect but truly before the fight and during the fight, I am quiet and calm, it’s the best part of my day.

Ultimately, fighting has a place in the sport. For those who don’t understand, the next time you see a fight, pay attention to how the two athletes handle themselves. We agree to fight, the helmets and gloves come off, and we both make the choice to go at it. It’s controlled, and for the most part it’s safe. We understand the risks, and we make calculated decisions based upon the pace of the game, the score, and the atmosphere in the arena.

Fighting is done with respect, honor, and professionalism. We are athletes and we do our jobs to win and put a better product on the floor for the fans. We know what we are getting ourselves into, and trust me when I tell you that it’s a calculated decision and process. It might never be understood, but at least some light has been shed on an aspect of the sport that never gets discussed.

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